Freedom

In life God has given us so much freedom and I usually find that for me it is this freedom that is as much as a great gift as it is overwhelming.  My confession is that sometimes I just want people to tell me what to do, and exactly how to do it.  This way I don't have to take any responsibility for being wrong.  I have dealt with this in my music performance.  If I am on stage and asked to improvise a solo, on one hand I think wow that sounds so fun and what an honor to be able to create a solo, but on the other hand I say, no please just tell me what to play.  After awhile I started to recognize this pattern in my life and realized that God doesn't want me to live in fear of making a mistake.  I can teach it to my kids all day long, but until I step out and live in this freedom and accept the grace to live each experience fully.  To step out into the exciting places where I may not know what is to come but I am growing as I take each step I am heading towards the dreams that are exciting to me and I am setting an example and giving others permission to do the same.  As I look at the gift of freedom, I see endless possibilities.  I see God's infinite creativity and I see grace.  We are given this freedom because it helps us become who we are.  We don't have to fit into any certain mold or do anything in the same manner as another person.  As long as God is our source, we are walking with His righteousness and His grace covers us.  As we step out we are stepping out with the dreams He has given us and He is growing our character to be more Christ like.  He is always guiding our ways so that we become better each day and we are walking in the direction of our dreams.  One of my favorite quotes is by Henry David Thoreau, "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams.  Live the life you have imagined." What an exciting way to life!  Today I am fully embracing the freedom that God has given me and asking Him what is my next step in the journey?

Balance and Energy

Once again, it has been awhile since I have blogged.  I love blogging because it is something that I can have to record sections of my life and it is also an outlet for me to discuss things that have been going on in life.  I may not always set aside time consistently to blog but when it gets important to me, I will make the time. Time is one of those things in life that I treasure.  It is more valuable than anything else since I am really a quality time girl.  I can't think of anything greater than one on one time with a friend or family member!

Life as a mom is busy and I am constantly seeking balance for myself and my family.  There is always that laundry pile that never seems to go away, and then there are the things I enjoy doing. Like playing with the kids, or cooking, exercising or performing or teaching music.  Not to mention I sometimes like to enjoy a clean house:)  Me as the planner that I can be sometimes, I'll try to plan out a schedule to balance things out, but I know life does not always go as planned.  I still believe in planning and taking personal responsibility for each choice in my life, but I don't allow myself to get frustrated if my day doesn't go exactly as planned.  A scripture that will always feed me is Proverbs 3:5 "Trust in the Lord with ALL of you heart and lean not on your own understanding.  In ALL your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight."  What a great word!  It is so simple, yet profound and it has the ability to speak to me no matter what season or journey I am walking through in my life! Me being the controller that I am, I have this tendency to trust in my own works and if I did enough good things throughout my day. While doing good things in my day is a good thing, it CANNOT be my source of trust and faith for how my life will develop.  As I daily walk through making a greater effort to cast my cares on God and receive His joy and peace and rest because I CAN trust Him to do what I cannot do.  Because my works in any given day, will NEVER be perfect, but His works ALWAYS were perfect and ALWAYS will be.  I would much rather trust in HIM although it is much easier if I do it myself (just kidding, haha!!)  I think it is actually my lack of faith that wants to do it myself, so I need to resist doing anything that is separate from what I have prayed because with God things just work, on your own things might work but there is a lot more toil involved. I am writing all of this to encourage myself that I can always grow to trust God more and I can always learn to only put works into things that I have prayed through first.

Now onto some memories I wanted to write about in the Burdick household these past months.  We had a great Christmas.  I feel as if my kids are just growing up way too fast now.  I have one turning two this next week and the other turning four in a month.  I still feel as if my youngest is a newborn, and still probably treat him like it some days.  Christmas was filled with Santa visits, Zoo lights, baking, and Abbie had her first Dance recital.  I took three weeks off from teaching so I did have a lot of time with the kids and it went by super quick!  Timmy got a lot of little people toys, legos and cars while Abbie got a Bike, a few Lollaloopsi dolls, and a scooter.  She spent many a day after Christmas playing with Timmy's cars though.  She has a lot of fun playing with her brother and has a little tomboy side to her. The bike hasn't been her favorite thing, we are still working through getting her confidence up while she rides but I know it will happen eventually.  Timmy is excited about his birthday coming up and he asked for a "Choo-Choo" birthday so we are doing Thomas again.  He isn't talking a ton but has been using a few new words.  He will tell you he is turning 2 with his words and his finger numbers and he also knows the number 3. His favorite things now are still Woof woofs and cars and also his toy boots from Dora which He asks for multiple times a day. He is also in this phase where he has a new attachment to Daddy and we have to call him and have him say night night to Daddy on the phone before his nap. Abbie has started taking violin lesson with Auntie Amber and I have been setting aside some fun time to encourage playing and sometimes I'll play with her.  Timmy has asked about it but seems to understand he has to wait until he is older although I do feel like he will be a very musical child.  Abbie is enjoying it and many times has said that the violin is her favorite part of the day but she is still very honest about things being hard and her not wanting to do the hard things.  Each day we cannot tackle the world, but we do make progress:)  I am very much thankful in this season to have the amount of time I do with my kids as I can see how fast it goes.  Here are some pictures from our last few months:

We made felt trees this year, Timmy had one too:)

Abbie and her friend Kennedy backstage before their first dance recital

Us backstage:)

Abbie's first expression when she woke up from nap to see the Christmas tree had been put up!

Abbie and Timmy made little Christmas tree crafts

Their visit with Santa this year

Ginger bread house and baking day!

The finished product

Thanks Auntie Amber for coming for our baking day!

Abbie had a ton of fun!

She is very into her "styles"

Timmy and his "cheesy" face

Santa handprints from Salt dough craft

Us on Christmas eve before church service!

I wrote all the letters then Abbie traced them

We did the same for the thank you note

They had SNOW at the Zoo!

Precious story time moments with Daddy are happening more and more as he is home more:)

Playing in the snow with Pap Pap

Did I mention we got to see Disney on Ice!?

Our new family pastime, roasting marshmallows outside

Marshmallow time, notice Abbie's "up" shoes

More marshmallow time

Timmy's play dough creation, he said it was a woof woof

Abbie made a pie

My daughter never ceases to amaze me!  She cut out Jasmine with her safety scissors all by herself.  I thought she did a great job!

Thankful hearts

Again it has been awhile since I have posted.  We have just celebrated Thanksgiving and with an almost 4 year old and almost 2 year old it gets more and more fun each passing year.  This year Pinterest inspired me on a few simple craft ideas to provide teachable moments on things we are thankful for and simply the changing of the seasons (which we still have yet to experience here in AZ, our a/c is still running and it's almost Dec.)  My kids both had fun with these activities and I gave myself enough grace so that I wouldn't feel horrible for missing a day here and there.  Still even though I have been a mom for awhile now, I am learning more each day about grace and that it isn't possible to fit perfection into each day.  For me, prioritizing simple little things I want to accomplish each day and balancing these things out on a weekly basis is very helpful.  I am the type of person that wants to do everything and I really have to make an effort to slow down my pace to make sure my children are not overwhelmed.

 We all had a great Thanksgiving with our entire family, Tim's parents, his sister, her roomate and my dad. Our family also did the turkey trot this year which was really fun and as long as we are not hosting Thanksgiving at our house I would do it every year. Timmy is talking more and more everyday.  His favorite more recent words are Boots (from Dora), yo-yo since Abbie has been playing with a yo-yo a lot recently, and Blue when he is coloring.  He still loves dogs which he calls woof woofs.  Abbie is still enjoying her dance class and has a recital coming soon. It has been fun listening to her inquisitive side as she has recently began to ask a lot more questions about everything. She also has started singing a lot more so I am wondering how her musical interests will grow as she grows.

We have enjoyed our fall and now we are getting ready for a great Christmas which will probably be my next blog post.

My halloween princess Cinderella, didn't get a picture of the superman this year:(

Our fall craft wall

close up of our thankful tree

Pumpkin farm time

Timmy enjoyed feeding the animals, Abbie wanted nothing to do with it!

They both LOVE to swing now!  They are so big!

They had fun at the zoo with a friend!

Time

Today it hit me how fast time really goes.  There is so much we can do in life and when we have children, life goes even faster! To think I have a 20 month old and a 3.5 year old is just crazy to me.  It almost does really seem like just yesterday I was pregnant with my first child.  I had a privilege of going to a baby shower for a friend this weekend and it was just SO exciting to see all the anticipation that the first child brings.  The start of a new life, what could be better, or more exciting?!

Life in our house has been busy with the start of me teaching more now, I have enjoyed being able to do one of the things I love most, well two of the things I love most, teaching and music.  My kids adjusted well to it, they still do miss when I am gone, but when I am teaching at my house Timmy always comes around the corner pointing to the music room saying, "Momma, Momma."  Abbie kept telling me she was dreaming about playing violin.  She has been pretty interested in what I am doing in there.

Our life at home when I'm not teaching is filled with quality time with my kids.  I do enjoy this time so much and I am very grateful that I can work just a little but still have a lot of time with my kids.  I know parenting will be full of many different seasons and my mind wants to plan and prepare for EVERYTHING, but I just have to trust God and live in the moment.  Abbie is so smart, she knows all her letters and is very curious about reading so it will be fun as she gets older because I really do enjoy teaching her.  Timmy is starting to loose his babyness and turn into a full toddler.  I'm not sure if I'm ready for that yet, but it's inevitable.

When I think about how fast life has went since Abbie was born it does scare me a little.  That's already 3.5 years.  In another 3.5 years she will be 7.  Okay, that does scare me!  It is so fun to watch them grow and all the challenges that you go through at each little stage just makes you that much wiser for having conquered what you were dealing with. At this point in my life I can really see how being a mom is really the most consuming job anyone could ever have, but it is the BEST job anyone could ever have.  Being a mom teaches me more about myself then anything else ever could have and it makes me a better me each day.

Each and every day with my kids is a true blessing!  I am excited to watch this journey unfold, but part of me really just wants to freeze time.

My girl and her silly face

quiet reading time

Dance class:)

Splash pad fun

This is Timmy doing the happy and you know it song

Best friends forever!

Princess Cinderella

Craft time, sometimes it's the little things that make her day!

Isn't he too cute?!

Timmy likes crafts too:)

dealing with pain in the past

I am sitting here, remembering my mom.  I do have to say that I miss her and part of me has been running from sitting still long enough to have any memories.  I remind myself that it is okay to cry but I am not so sure it is okay to run from ever thinking about it to escape my emotions.  I am sure every person on earth can think back to something in their past that would bring them painful memories, the thing is I just don't want to recreate in my life the things that were created in my past.  History does have a way of repeating itself.  But God never ceases to amaze me and tonight I just meditate on these scriptures:

Philippians 3:13-14 ESV

Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.

Isaiah 43:18-19 ESV

“Remember not the former things, nor consider the things of old. Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.

2 Corinthians 5:17 ESV

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.

You see my faith in strong, I have a belief that you cannot mess with about the creator of this universe.  I may not be able to articulate my belief as strongly as I feel it, but it is something that has been revealed to me through many series of events in my life.  I must admit, I had my own share of trust issues and I am still working through some but when I let go and put my whole and complete trust in God without any doubt, He ALWAYS shows himself faithful.

So nights like tonight, when I have a sadness in my heart for something painful that happened on this earth, God fills my heart with all that I could ever need and comforts me that I can use what was meant for evil to bring good into this world.

I am a strong believer that there is way more going on in this world then we (even the most intelligent of humans) can understand.  And so one of my all time favorite scriptures is

Proverbs 3:5-6

New International Version (NIV)

⁵ Trust in the Lord^(A) with all your heart
    and lean not on your own understanding;
⁶ in all your ways submit to him,
    and he will make your paths^(B) straight.^[a](C)

 I love how this verse is so simple yet so profound! You can apply SO many life situations to this one verse and your heart can be calmed.  Writing this blog and reminding me of these truths sure did calm my own heart and I know what God does for one person He will do for anyone. 

Life here with the Burdick's

Once again, it has been awhile since I last blogged.  I am so glad that I am taking the time to blog, since I know that many times my memory might fail to remember all the fond details of my everyday life with two little ones. The biggest change since my last blog is that Timmy is starting to explode in his talking.  And when I say explode, I mean before he was really just saying baby babble and now he is saying real words. I attempted to write down all of what he says now, but I know I am still leaving some words out, but here is what I can remember, Momma, Dadda, Ball (which I must say is his all time FAVORITE word, he says this one like 40 times a day), Choo-Choo, Bah (like a sheep), Woof, Red, Yellow, Grape, Juice, Water, Dora, Moo, Fish, and Dark (for when he helps me sort the laundry into lights and darks). His personality is SO different from his sisters that it is really interesting to watch this talking explosion since it is nothing like what I experienced with Abbie.  Abbie is loving her time playing prince and princess with her little brother, which usually is just her trying to boss around her little brother.  In all fairness, she really plays really well with him and they are so sweet together much of the time! I have started teaching violin/viola and piano again and Abbie does get pretty excited when a student leaves to want to try piano.  I haven't done much of anything but show her how to hold a violin and with that she did do amazingly well.  We are in the process of looking for a dance studio for her so I'm sure my next blog will be filled with details about that. For now, enough writing, here are some pictures of our fun!

Fun riding on daddy's mower

Abbie is getting excited to try new hair do's

Timmy loves his kisses

playtime at the mall

Mommy's little baker girl

Mommy's handsome little man

why can't I use two spoons??

Let's go down together

Swimming and trying out our floaties

Just watching a show together

Abbie got a turn too